Postpartum Depression Statistics
Every year, thousands of new moms battle with a serious case of depression. Bringing a baby home is no easy task, and getting used taking care of a being that seems to suck everything out of you, takes...
View ArticlePostpartum Anxiety–This is What Mine Looked Like
Tamara recently left her beloved buckeye-state and relocated to Pittsburgh with her husband and infant son. While at home, she’s decided to give writing, attachment parenting, and photography a try....
View ArticleDepressed… With Children
I’ve had issues with anxiety and depression all my life. According to my mother, I was the only newborn in the maternity word who refused to eat and just screamed her head off, instead. The pattern...
View ArticleMotherhood & Depression: What it Means for Me and My Daughter
1. Me Depression and motherhood do not mix. Before I was married I was aware that my offspring could possibly carry the same genetic predisposition that I have for depression. I don’t mean the “blues”...
View ArticleManaging Motherhood & Depression Means Asking For Help
It was a day I will never forget. Last week, I was at work when I received a call from my daughter’s preschool. I was told that she is fine but she is saying she is very tired and is … Continue reading →
View ArticleIt’s Time to Fight the Stigma of Mental Illness
As a social worker, I have always been about combating the stigma of mental illness. As a human being, I have been passionate about it. As someone with an actual diagnosis of depression, it is always...
View ArticleHow To Survive the Seder When You’re Depressed
As a woman, I try to be everything to everyone. As a wife and mother, that becomes magnified times 100. With Passover creeping up a bit too fast for me, I have to become superwoman. At least, that is...
View ArticleIf Becoming a Mom Means Losing My Old Identity, I’m OK With That
I am Iliana’s mom. That is my identity, according to all of her friends. Am I OK with that? Hell, yeah! I have heard many times that you lose your identity after having a child, as no one calls you by...
View ArticleI Cried on the Last Day of Preschool, But Not For the Reasons You Think
Our son’s last day of Jewish preschool has come and gone, and there are still times I cry, but not for the reasons you may think. I wasn’t one of those moms posting on Facebook about my son’s first day...
View ArticleThe Trauma of First-Time Parenthood
When we brought our newborn daughter home, she nursed around the clock with a ferocious latch. It felt as if I was putting my nipple into a stapler and then having the milk sucked out by an expensive...
View ArticleElectroconvulsive Therapy Saved My Life & Helped Me Be Myself Again
After months of worsening depression and intense psychotherapy, it was an email I sent to my psychiatrist that was the last straw. I simply told her, once again, how lonely I felt and how much pain I...
View ArticleDon’t Feel Bad About Not Missing Your Kids
OK, so maybe I’m not such a good mother. I didn’t cry or sadly wave goodbye as my kids boarded the bus to camp. I can’t even truthfully say I missed them all that much. It was four weeks until …...
View ArticleTo My Mama Friend Who is Having a Rough Time
This post is part of our Torah commentary series. This Shabbat we read Parashat Nitzavim. To read a summary of the portion and learn more, click here. To a mama friend who is currently having a rough...
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